Early-bird registration closes 10th October 2026 program begins 27th October 2026
Coaching for Women Who Wants to get it right before Their Marriage
A 3 week program for the single woman who wants more than butterflies
Choose with clarity. Not just chemistry.
Before you say “yes,” learn to choose with wisdom not just emotion.
A guided 3 week journey designed to help you understand yourself, recognize your relationship patterns, develop healthy discernment, and make wiser choices before making a lifelong commitment.
Your future deserves more than a decision based on feelings alone.
Flat fee ₦37,500 · Programme starts 10th Oct 2026
Adaobi Ikechebelu
FamilyLife Practitioner · Founder, Mending Roots Counselling
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The questions you keep asking yourself at 1am
“How do I know if this is the right person?”
“What if I’m ignoring something important?”
“Am I being too picky, or am I settling?”
“Is this love, chemistry, attachment or genuine compatibility?”
“What if I leave and never find someone better?”
You are not alone. Many women have been taught how to find love but very few have been taught how to choose wisely. That’s a different skill. It can be learned. That’s what this programme is for.
What “Choose with Clarity: Beyond Chemistry” actually is
A 3 week transformational program designed to help you understand yourself, examine what may be influencing your relationship choices, and develop the clarity and discernment you need before making a lifelong commitment.
It’s built and hosted by a licensed Counselling Psychologist and Marriage & Family Therapist grounded in systemic therapy and trauma-informed care, not generic dating advice.
- Weekly live sessions
- Practical workbooks
- Group discussions
- Guided accountability
Together, we’ll explore:
- Who you are, and what truly matters to you
- Your relationship patterns and what may be shaping them
- Fear, doubt, pressure and negative thoughts
- Chemistry vs. character vs. compatibility
- Red flags, green flags and concern vs. imperfection
- Emotional readiness for marriage
- Values, faith, finances, family, children, communication
- How to recognise (and become) a healthy partner
- How to decide without fear, pressure or fantasy
This programme is for you if you are
- Single and desire marriage
- Dating, or currently in a relationship
- Considering engagement
- Recovering from a painful relationship
- Afraid of making the wrong choice
- Tired of second guessing your relationship decisions
- Unsure if you're choosing from love, fear, loneliness or pressure
- Ready to become intentional about who you eventually marry
This is not for married women. It’s for the woman who wants to pause, look inward, gain clarity, and make a wiser decision before saying “I do.” Because the question isn’t only “will he choose me?” You also need to ask: “do I have the clarity to choose him?”
By the end of these 3 weeks, you should be able to say:
- I understand myself better.
- I understand what influences my choices.
- I can distinguish chemistry from compatibility.
- I know what truly matters to me in a life partner.
- I am less controlled by fear and pressure.
- I know what conversations must happen before commitment.
- I can make my relationship decisions with clarity and confidence.
What you’ll develop
The programme helps participants build four things most dating advice skips entirely.
Clarity
Make wise, values based decisions.
Discernment
Recognise red flags and understand what you are choosing.
Emotional freedom
Move beyond fear, doubt, pressure and negative thoughts.
Confidence
Step into the next season with peace and confidence.
PROGRAMME STARTS
27th Oct 2026
EARLY-BIRD ENDS
10 Oct 2026
INVESTMENT
₦37,500 flat fee
FORMAT
3 weeks, live & guided
What's included
- Weekly live sessions
- Practical workbooks
- Exercises & reflections
- Group discussions
- Guidance & accountability
What Our Clients Say
“Before encountering Mrs. Adaobi Ikechebelu’s teachings, I felt completely lost. I had a good job, a stable life but I wasn’t happy. Through her guidance, I began to understand myself in a way I never had before. She has a way of asking the right questions that make you confront the truth. Today, I feel more aligned, more confident, and more alive than ever.”
Chinwe A., Abuja
“She doesn’t just talk she listens deeply. And when she speaks, it hits you. Her approach is not about forcing change, but helping you discover yourself. That’s what makes her different. My mindset, decisions, and confidence have all improved.”
Grace U, P.H
“As a parent, I always thought I was guiding my children the right way. But Mrs. Adaobi helped me realize I was unknowingly projecting my own expectations on them. Her insights completely changed how I relate with my children. I now see their uniqueness and know how to nurture it.”
Mrs. Nkechi E., Enugu
Adaobi Ikechebelu
Licensed Counselling Psychologist & Marriage/Family Therapist
Adaobi is a dedicated mental health professional committed to helping individuals and families navigate life’s most complex transitions. With a foundation in systemic therapy and trauma-informed care, her approach is both empathetic and evidence-based.
- Marriage & Family Therapy : strengthening bonds, resolving conflict, navigating generational patterns.
- Trauma support : a safe, regulated space for processing lived experience and building resilience.
- Clinical psychotherapy : tailored sessions focused on emotional regulation and mental wellness.
- Integrative mental health : traditional counselling combined with modern clinical perspectives.
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Before you register
No. It’s for any single woman who desires marriage — whether you’re dating, considering engagement, recovering from a painful relationship, or simply want to become more intentional before your next relationship begins.
Yes. Most of the work happens inward — understanding your patterns, your fears, and what truly matters to you — so you walk into your next relationship (or your current one) already clear, rather than figuring it out under pressure.
You’ll join weekly live sessions with Adaobi, work through practical workbooks and reflection exercises, and take part in group discussions — with guidance and accountability throughout the 3 weeks.
The programme is designed specifically around the decisions and discernment needed before commitment — the questions, fears and evaluations unique to choosing a life partner. It’s built for that season, not the one after.
Tap any “Register” button on this page to go to secure checkout on Selar. Your spot is confirmed once payment of ₦37,500 is complete. Spaces are limited, and early-bird registration closes 27th September 2026.
Your future marriage deserves more than chemistry.
Choose with clarity. Choose with wisdom. Choose intentionally. Limited spaces — early-bird registration closes 10th october 2026.
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Programme begins 10th October 2026 · Not for married women
Flat fee
57,500
₦37,500
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